As my parents like to point out, I make too many rash decisions. The most recent of these decisions is one I made this past fall. Over the summer after my first year of college at BYU, I had a sudden thought that I needed to stay in my hometown, Las Vegas, and attend UNLV. Within a week of this idea, I made the transfer from BYU to UNLV and a few weeks after that I realized I wasn't exactly sure why I did it. I had been accepted into the ever-challenging nursing program, had a cute apartment, had a potential job opportunity, and had the best roommates/ friends I could have asked for all to live at home with my parents, have no job, and no guarentee into my program of choice. So, why did I leave? Some say it was because of a boy....
Karsten Smith and I met back in August of 2010, the day before school started for me. I was stressed about the decision I had just made and I still had no idea why I did it. My close summer friend, Jen Ballard, and I had peaks and valleys of a social life. Sometimes we were social and sometimes we weren't. On one particular Sunday night, my cousin, Brian Marx, had invited Jen and I over for a movie night. We had made the last minute decision to go. We got there late and didn't even get a good look at everyone there because the movie had started and the lights were out. So Jen and I took our place on the floor and cuddled until the movie was over. After the movie, we all played a game together. There were several people there with us and one boy I had never met. I remember making the note that he was cute. The game we all played was called the "state game" where we all took on the name of a state for someone to call out and change seats and all sorts of fun stuff. My state was Florida. We had a good time and I still had that cute boy on my mind.
We had a few weeks in between our first meeting where for a period of time, this boy (who I learned was named Karsten) only knew me as "Florida". One day, Karsten had asked me for my number and hanging out together started very slowly. We talked and texted eachother a lot. We started out as pretty good friends. It wasn't until he stopped me from out going with another boy and he broke it off with another girl that I thought there could be something there. Our dating began.
This was the first time we talked about how we needed to take more pictures together!
Just shortly after Karsten and I decided we didn't want to date anyone else.
Christmas
New Years
Rebel Games
Valentine's Day
St. Patrick's Day
Painting Karsten's room
General Conference
I've loved every holiday, date, and trip. I have loved the boring days, the stressful days, and the romantic days. Karsten and I have grown a lot together and have become best friends.
Did I leave BYU for Karsten? I don't know. But it has been the best, rash decision I have ever made!
hey i was the creeper who took that first picture!! yay young love! haha
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